Pin It

Why is online dating so ridiculous?

Amanda Blain November 1, 2011 104

Better question… Why is it so hard to meet nice normal socially adjusted people today?

googleplus  Why is online dating so ridiculous?  1

Google+: Reshared 11 times
Google+: View post on Google+

Love To Hear Your Thoughts...

Loading Disqus Comments ...
Loading Facebook Comments ...

104 Comments »

  1. Scott Hill November 1, 2011 at 8:21 pm - Reply

    If I could answer those questions +Amanda Blain, I might actually have success getting a date.

  2. Marie Axelsson November 1, 2011 at 8:21 pm - Reply

    Well I don't believe there ever were any ;-)

  3. Matt Delisle November 1, 2011 at 8:22 pm - Reply

    …because nice normal socially adjusted people don't exist

  4. Stacy Frazer November 1, 2011 at 8:22 pm - Reply

    Oh boy, you know it

  5. Mark Spencer November 1, 2011 at 8:22 pm - Reply

    careful, she's a biter…

  6. Sebastian Germain November 1, 2011 at 8:23 pm - Reply

    >socially adjusted
    >internet
    Nope.tiff

  7. Szandor Xint November 1, 2011 at 8:23 pm - Reply

    I think nice, normal, socially adjusted people just don't need the internet to date/socialize.

  8. Scott Hill November 1, 2011 at 8:23 pm - Reply

    Hey now +Brandi Bull, I resemble that remark. :P

  9. David Lee November 1, 2011 at 8:24 pm - Reply

    I must have just lucked out. I had the exact same ideas about women till I went online and met my Lady.

    and whats wrong with kittens? Prepared right they taste just like chicken.

  10. Raymond Corsetti November 1, 2011 at 8:24 pm - Reply

    lol, I love how women see men as the issue and vice versa.. I have met some awful kinds of crazy from the female population. Its not just men. women carry the crazy too.

  11. Derrick Best November 1, 2011 at 8:24 pm - Reply

    I met my partner online dating and still going strong since 2007. So there nice people out there.

  12. Joseph DeFazio November 1, 2011 at 8:24 pm - Reply

    I'm not against online dating. I met my wife on ToonTown XD. Although, I wouldn't consider myself normal.

  13. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:25 pm - Reply

    i have facebook and thats enough lol. omg is it.

  14. Sergio Corrales November 1, 2011 at 8:25 pm - Reply
  15. Charles Moore November 1, 2011 at 8:25 pm - Reply

    I met my wife IRL. But we grew from casual acquaintances to friends via email. Without those conversations, we would never have gotten together.

  16. Clayton Vernal November 1, 2011 at 8:25 pm - Reply

    Stop looking, goto a bar someplace (Real one not a "online" bar) , relax & have fun.
    See how you get on.

  17. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:26 pm - Reply

    +Sergio Corrales good one lol

  18. Sergio Corrales November 1, 2011 at 8:26 pm - Reply

    +Christopher Stokes I had to…haha

  19. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:26 pm - Reply

    bars are not great places but you can get layed thou ;)

  20. Michael Durwin November 1, 2011 at 8:26 pm - Reply

    Because you're looking in the wrong place with too narrow of a view.

  21. Amanda Blain November 1, 2011 at 8:26 pm - Reply

    There are no men vs women remarks in my question thank you very much.. I clearly stated peoples.. :)

    I regularly leave my house… and get introduced to/meet lots of nice married couples and people :)

  22. Martijn van der Meulen November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    I don't think it's that ridiculous. I've tried it twice but for guys it's just as difficult as the picture above implies – it's not easy meeting a 'normal' person. Saying that, meeting a normal person whilst going out isn't easy either. I met my girlfriend in a pub, which is a bit cliché, but if you're trying to find someone who really connects with you it's better to have an open mind on how you might bump into that person.

  23. Cherie DeBrule November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    Alot of men are just on there for sex.

  24. Derrick Best November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    +David Lee you need to come by me for dinner sometime. Be sure to bring your specially prepared kitten

  25. James Finstrom November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    E: All of the above

  26. Cherie DeBrule November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    It's hard to find a connection either online or in person these days.

  27. Nikki Volz November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    He may be all those things, but she is emotionally unstable and has an unhealthy diet of computer hardware. We're not all perfect ;) .

  28. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:27 pm - Reply

    and besides your a very very pretty women guys should be all over you asking for dates…

  29. Barb David November 1, 2011 at 8:28 pm - Reply

    Online allows us to be picky and dismissive without much personal discomfort, so some good people (potential mates) are dismissed due to poor grammar or unflattering pics. When meeting someone IRL, one tends to take in the package as a whole. Online allows me to pick someone apart word by word, character by character.

    Full disclosure, I met my partner online in 2004, and he is mostly awesome! :)

  30. Karen Thomas Sherin November 1, 2011 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    An age old problem no matter who you are, what you look like or where you live. Like my grandma always used to say .. you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince LOL

  31. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    +Barb David ouch that hurt lol ;)

  32. Charles Moore November 1, 2011 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    I hate bars. Smoke. Loud music I rarely like. Dim lights. That means I can't tell if the peoples can carry on a conversation, look decent, or smell clean. WTF kind of place is that to meet anyone?!

  33. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:29 pm - Reply

    ribbit

  34. James Finstrom November 1, 2011 at 8:30 pm - Reply

    I did online dating. The female population is just as bad. I think I am mostly normal and have been married to a woman I met online 10 years ago.

  35. Derrick Best November 1, 2011 at 8:30 pm - Reply

    There's alot of women there just for sex too +Cherie DeBrule

  36. Barb David November 1, 2011 at 8:30 pm - Reply

    hurt? I hurt someone? dammit skulks off to find wine

  37. Clayton Vernal November 1, 2011 at 8:31 pm - Reply

    +Charles Moore Well the bars I goto are Non-smoking , good back ground music with tranquil garden bars. And guess what… thats where i met MY princess! :p

  38. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:31 pm - Reply

    +Barb David i was kidding lol

  39. Mark Faine November 1, 2011 at 8:31 pm - Reply

    +Derrick Best Where are these women?

  40. Yas Mean November 1, 2011 at 8:32 pm - Reply

    I work for eHarmony.I just died laughing.

  41. Justin Kettel November 1, 2011 at 8:32 pm - Reply

    Good question +Amanda Blain and thankfully, I'm married and no longer have to go through the whole dating hell.

    Your question is timely because I just started working with a guy (also from Canada) who is experiencing the same dilemma. He finds it's easy to meet woman through the sites he utilizes, but complains it's difficult to meet quality woman due to the fact that so many stretch the truth or eliminate key details, etc.

  42. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:32 pm - Reply

    +Derrick Best yep i know many like that with my music and art i get so many that want just sex. so your right

  43. Neil Whiteman November 1, 2011 at 8:32 pm - Reply

    According to Ok Cupid women are much more critical http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

  44. Christopher Barron November 1, 2011 at 8:33 pm - Reply

    E. Really?

  45. Christopher Barron November 1, 2011 at 8:33 pm - Reply

    eww

  46. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:33 pm - Reply
  47. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:33 pm - Reply

    +Angela Rae Powerbeard and hookers lol

  48. EL Bacon November 1, 2011 at 8:33 pm - Reply

    in G+ – online no longer means only the written word or static images – you can now do hangouts and HEAR them laugh and see them move and smile or grin – Thank You HANGOUTS!

  49. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:34 pm - Reply

    mmmmmmmmm hangouts lol

  50. Barb David November 1, 2011 at 8:35 pm - Reply

    Whew +Christopher Stokes. Skips off to drink that wine!

  51. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:35 pm - Reply

    i just did a funny video about google hang outs Google+ Video Chat Room

  52. Yas Mean November 1, 2011 at 8:35 pm - Reply

    +Neil Whiteman Don't take anything on the OKC blog seriously. monkeys write their novels.

    +Christopher Stokes Yeah. I've seen. Only about a million times. :p when the crazy cat lady came out my life sucked for like 2 weeks

  53. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:35 pm - Reply

    i dont drink. just coffee ;)

  54. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:36 pm - Reply

    +Yas Mean LOL

  55. Amanda Blain November 1, 2011 at 8:37 pm - Reply

    +Yas Mean I never used eharmony… but i doubt its better… :|

    +Justin Kettel Canada you say… which section? ;)

    I hangout a lot. ;) 90% of people who do are also married/relationshiped… or VERY strange.

  56. Tejas Richard November 1, 2011 at 8:38 pm - Reply

    I met my wife while drunkenly filling in a darts tournament. That may have shaped our entire relationship.

  57. Stacy Frazer November 1, 2011 at 8:38 pm - Reply

    I hang out and I'm not married or strange…….well not real strange

  58. Scott Hill November 1, 2011 at 8:38 pm - Reply

    I'd have to concur with +Amanda Blain about the strange part.. as I'm sure I fall in that category myself. :)

  59. Derrick Best November 1, 2011 at 8:38 pm - Reply

    +Christopher Stokes +Mark Faine Most are online. Or found a man that is as practical as they are.

    I wanna tell all the women commenting here to lighten up a bit, there are plenty of good men out there. But there are too many jerks around out there IRL for me to be taken seriously.

  60. James M November 1, 2011 at 8:41 pm - Reply

    Why? You have all these wonderful choices here on G+, :)

  61. Amanda Blain November 1, 2011 at 8:42 pm - Reply

    +Derrick Best ;) again… i dont hate men.. or blame men… i run a website of women… all human peoples are equally nutbars.. :)

    +Stacy Frazer flattered you want to date darling… but not my style tee hee.

    Thank your commentors… one is never alone on the intertubes in complaint misery.. :) ?

  62. Michael Durwin November 1, 2011 at 8:42 pm - Reply

    +Brandi Bull pleez. Every single girl I know has the MOST ridiculous criteria for men. 6-pack, 6-figure salary, wants kids, is a homebody but still has a ton of friends and busy social life, athletic, intellectual, perfect hair, snappy dresser, likes antiquing…
    So, basically a rich gay man with a split personality.

  63. Brett Bjornsen November 1, 2011 at 8:44 pm - Reply

    A little late on this one…67 comments and running… +Amanda Blain , it might be that you're surrounded by Canadians… just sayin ;)

    Only kidding… everything was much easier in the old days before electricity…

  64. Tejas Richard November 1, 2011 at 8:44 pm - Reply

    /s/ Yeah, and every guy will stuck it in anything wet and warm… Wait, that is true. Damn.

  65. Justin Kettel November 1, 2011 at 8:46 pm - Reply

    He is from Toronto's arch enemy +Amanda Blain… Montreal. We hit it off b/c I'm from Detroit (practically Canada) and we both like hockey.

    Besides being French Canadian Amanda, he's quite normal. He writes code for us, a big technology geek, etc.

  66. Stacy Frazer November 1, 2011 at 8:49 pm - Reply

    oh no you didn't +Dave Meralus

  67. Vincent Murphy November 1, 2011 at 8:50 pm - Reply

    Don't give up hope, I met my beautiful amazing wife on the Guardian Soulmates website. Here is a short vid of a news item featuring our ridiculously romantic traditional English country wedding Henley's humanist weddings

  68. Derrick Best November 1, 2011 at 8:51 pm - Reply

    I read somewhere that the only normal thing about people is that they're all a bit abnormal.

  69. Tanea Ramsey November 1, 2011 at 8:53 pm - Reply

    I met my husband online. We have been together for 8 years come January, and married for 4 in February. The best decision I ever made was to answer his email..

  70. Christopher Stokes November 1, 2011 at 8:53 pm - Reply

    +Stacy Frazer did you animate your face? on your profile i was peeking

  71. Stacy Frazer November 1, 2011 at 8:54 pm - Reply

    wasn't done by me but by +DiZzY WiZ !!

  72. Amanda Blain November 1, 2011 at 8:57 pm - Reply

    Hmmmm +Andy Cameron mayhaps you have something there…
    Just need to find a math formula for determining someones normalness…. BRING IT MATH GEEKS OF PLUS!

    +Vincent Murphy This video is all about awesome… Beautiful wedding! P.s. Is the brother of the bride single? ;)

  73. Harold Harlander November 1, 2011 at 9:00 pm - Reply

    because we rather believe in a fantasy then reality in this ever changing world of electronic gadgets, then the daily reality of real people. Driven by wants and desires, we rather believe than know.
    Really sucks when you have a electronic relationship for month just to find out that your being set up/scammed..

  74. Stephen K November 1, 2011 at 9:00 pm - Reply

    There is no such thing as normal cause everyone has that secret about themselves ;) , but I've never used online dating and I've always found great girls to date. Some were shy, others were loud. . . i've never dated a socially awkward girl, but not finding dates online kind of filters that out. hell yeah they were all weird, but we all are and that's why we always have fun.

  75. Matt Delisle November 1, 2011 at 9:01 pm - Reply

    +Justin Kettel What's abnormal about being French Canadian?

  76. Yas Mean November 1, 2011 at 9:03 pm - Reply

    +Amanda Blain oh don't worry. it's not. LOL its all propaganda honey. ours is written by very talented marmots. they can also juggle and do birthday parties. :p its a different world though. I mean neither is better than the other because they are totally different products.

  77. Yas Mean November 1, 2011 at 9:05 pm - Reply

    more to your actual question one thing i have learned in my job is the difference between settling and compromise. there are some extremely shallow narrowminded people out there genuinely wondering why they are alone. Makes my job awesome to have to explain that to them.

  78. Vincent Murphy November 1, 2011 at 9:07 pm - Reply

    +Amanda Blain Alas not, but my bestest mate in the world is. He has a Doctorate in Parasitology but a couple of years ago gave it up to set up his own very succesful carpentry business. A real smart guy and amazing around the house – good looking as well!

  79. Amanda Blain November 1, 2011 at 9:22 pm - Reply

    lol sweet… Google+ introductions! Bring it!

  80. Gordon Duke November 1, 2011 at 9:29 pm - Reply

    because my wife doesn't want me dating

  81. Karen Thomas Sherin November 1, 2011 at 9:36 pm - Reply

    Maybe we need our friend +Dave Meralus to device a #swaggerday_gplusdatenight or some such. I haven't done much hanging out on g+ but I had a couple of really weird experiences early on so it scared me off because it was glitchy and they insisting on yelling at everyone that they were doing it wrong lol. I need to dip my toe back in the water and would be happy to do so if folks were nice and welcoming. I love the idea of G+ online dating lol

  82. Andy Horton November 1, 2011 at 10:29 pm - Reply

    Looking in the wrong geographic region…

  83. Andrés Arrieta November 1, 2011 at 10:44 pm - Reply

    Soon you'll have blind dates with several "contestants" via Google Hangouts.

  84. Jeff Johnson November 1, 2011 at 10:58 pm - Reply

    It's ridiculous because it can be hard to find anyone to have genuine honest conversation with.

    That or they live entirely too far away!

  85. Tara Mulder November 1, 2011 at 11:32 pm - Reply

    I've met lots of wonderful people online, including my current partner (several years now). I also have friends who have met their spouses through online dating. It's a matter of a little luck and some good screening before meeting the person. Even the bad dates turn into entertaining stories later!

  86. Terry Sansom November 1, 2011 at 11:33 pm - Reply

    a) She has 3 cats, b) She thinks Average body type is Obese.(Should have known she only has face shots on her profile). c) She's really just looking to get out of her liter box filled apartment for a night. d) She think her $9 and hour job IS a career.

  87. Jeff Turner November 1, 2011 at 11:35 pm - Reply

    Trick only date people willing to upload a video to YouTube. That way there are no surprises :)

  88. Andrew Kovacic November 2, 2011 at 6:48 am - Reply

    when ever i see internet dating all i can think of is this – eHarmony Video Bio

  89. yufeng wang November 2, 2011 at 7:37 am - Reply

    maybe someone only want to date a sex!

  90. Renata Sherwin November 2, 2011 at 9:03 am - Reply

    ^ Never date a sex. ^

  91. Barry Istuk November 2, 2011 at 1:10 pm - Reply

    I've just read through all your posts and I don't think I need to comment.

  92. Amanda Blain November 2, 2011 at 7:57 pm - Reply

    im not even sure what the last three comments mean… ?_?

  93. Charlie Brown November 2, 2011 at 8:05 pm - Reply

    I know I am probably the exception but I met my wife of 7 years on Yahoo singles back when Yahoo was still popular. We have 4 kids and are very happy as far as know. I did wade thru a lot of head cases before I met her though.

  94. Robyn Oyeniyi November 2, 2011 at 8:25 pm - Reply

    I have to say, I love the picture! Charlie – good for you, I know of others who were successful too – but mainly in the younger age brackets. I ran into a LOT that fitted the above four categories!!!

  95. Colin Campbell November 3, 2011 at 10:11 pm - Reply

    Never been there. Sounds too hard.

  96. Élan Karpinski November 3, 2011 at 11:09 pm - Reply

    Totally met my husband online. He lived 9,000 miles away, but we made it work and are now happily living together. But yeah, what a fluke.

  97. Ben Collins-Sussman November 4, 2011 at 12:37 am - Reply

    "The world is full of crazies; the internet just makes it seem like they all live next door."

  98. Mellie B November 4, 2011 at 12:57 pm - Reply

    lol

  99. Delacio Brooks November 8, 2011 at 3:14 am - Reply

    I agree that is why I got divorced! LOL. Maybe I'll meet someone good someday

  100. D Sandiego November 8, 2011 at 7:53 pm - Reply

    Because we not normal from how things were long ago. That is why things are in chaos right now.

  101. William Mauritzen November 12, 2011 at 3:21 pm - Reply

    OMG They made a poster about me! oh wait…i'm not married.

  102. Robyn Oyeniyi November 13, 2011 at 3:21 am - Reply

    I don't think the criteria are mutually exclusive!

  103. Sudhakar Kumar November 16, 2011 at 6:33 am - Reply

    hi

  104. Wilhelm Hense April 9, 2012 at 8:52 am - Reply

    Guten hunger

Leave A Response »

You might also likeclose